My most habitual way to hold the yarn is a double loop over the index finger. On the left it works well with most yarns. For the stickiest yarns it may be too tight and then I wrap the yarn over the index, under the middle, over the ring finger and under the pinky. For some reason both of these holds are too loose on the right hand. Immediately I have too much slack and can't manipulate the yarn at all. I saw in videos that people use the second (woven) hold or even a simpler single loop on the index finger. But in the videos they are always painfully slow. They pretty much put down the needles in order to use the right hand yarn. This is not acceptable for me. I need to be fast. So I ended up wrapping the yarn around my pinky once and around the index finger twice. It works for controlling the yarn but it's tighter than the left yarn. I don't want to match the left with the same convoluted contraption. It all adds preparation time when I resume knitting. Also the right hand arrangement comes undone occasionally, rather often in fact, so I have to go through the same dance of putting it back together. I need a fast firm way to grab those yarns and keep them in the same hold without redoing it often.